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DM's are open and i am ready to listen !!

"I can't imagine how you must be feeling."

Yeah. it's true that you can't imagine what a person is feeling or facing in his/her life but still, most of you are writing DM's are open and I am ready to listen.
Read this sentence again carefully, you will find it like you are doing a favour where are your emotions buddy! rather than writing this post on you insta or social media, you should call your close friends personally at least, they deserve this much care yarr !!

Now, just think how can someone open to a person with whom they have not talked for a long time, how can they share the dark secrets or regrets of their life with you suddenly. Seeing these type of posts on insta or WhatsApp really made my blood boil to the stupidity and hypocrisy of some peeps.

Ok, suppose you got happy by seeing these posts and some of you gathered all your courage and decided to call your friends to talk about your problems. Here comes the saying "When REALITY strikes hard", some of your friends would be like "STOP OVERTHINKING" or "GET OVER IT ALREADY", maybe some insensitive ones got bored too.
WARNING: if you are posting this type of message please be considerate and listen to your friend seriously and give advice only if you are sure about it.

Some common dialogues by people especially Indians when they hear words like "feeling down". "depression", "heartbreak" etc. :

  • Koi na, theek hojaega 
  • ek gyi hai dusri aajaegi 
  • abhi teri umar hi kya hai !!
  • itni si baat pr kon pareshan hota hai, bacha hai kyaa ?
My favourite one that I have heard more than often is " bhenchod, chutiya hai kya !!".
We may be conscious of physical heath but there are few of us who even know there is something like "mental health".
READ about MENTAL HEALTH and create social awareness about it.

RIP! Sushant.

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